Stahlke Adoption

Parentification

Kola had yet another tantrum today, and when we put him outside to cool off (in coat and gloves), he took a snow shovel to our front steps. Jonathan brought him back into the house, where the puppy went after him because Kola looked like he was hurting Jonathan. I grabbed the dog, and Jonathan took Kola up to his room.

Some of the older children demanded that Jonathan and I treat Kola more harshly. Others protested that we were too strict. I didn't have to say much when the two camps yelled loudly at each other. More than one kid was sent outside today.

David stood by quietly and earned himself several privileges for the rest of the day. He enjoyed fun time at the Concordia computer room, and was able to choose the radio station in the car.

I was thankful that at least one child kept themselves out of Kola's discipline.

posted by Stahlkes @ 7:47 PM